Can I Call Myself a Lesbian If I’m Happily Married to a Man? (The Village Voice)
Q. I came out after a number of years of “playing straight.” I had two relatively long-term monogamous gay relationships, then converted a friend into a boyfriend. We bought a house, got a dog, and live in the ‘burbs. Supposedly, life is good. I’m a fairly athletic guy, and I got started playing sports partly to overcome my internal homophobia. My partner isn’t athletic. He likes to stay home, …
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